KERNOWHUSKIES Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 Yet again i've missed something very important to do with my friends on here cos i live so bloody far away so thats made me unhappy. I'm seriously thinkin of movin up North, i'm lonely down here, havent got any real friends just hangers on or people that want u 2 kiss their ass or make u feel like ur nothing. I've lived up there before in Stafford n it wasnt that bad n i had a really good job with a even nicer wage so it would mean no more scrimping for food at the end of the month, not that im eating much these days. Just the thought of eating at the mo makes me feel crap n when i do eat i wish i hadnt. Work is bad as usual, im really good at my job and im in charge of tele sales every month n most of the time twice a month, im always in the top 3 in the south west. We have a stupid bonus thing called STARSHIP where i found out 2day Penzance Branch came 60th out of 78 branches i mean WTF is the point !!!! Yeh thanks 4 that ive been workin my ass off for 12 months for............................. £20 twenty effin quid n i know there r branches that dont do any tele sales n they r the f*****s that r gettin £200 + i just dont get it. We also had another promotion durin OCT/NOV where i worked my ass of yet again n i came 10th n u had 2 b in the top 5 arrrgggghhhhhhhh IM JUST SO PISSED OFF So the big question 2 all of u is DO U THINK I SHOULD MOVE FROM ONE OF THE NICEST PLACEST IN THE UK 2 B WIT MY FRIENDS ? (if u would want me up there) or STICK IT OUT N HOPE THINGS GET BETTER ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 oh ems *hugs* things will get better soon i promise, i think you need to think long and hard about deciding to move just because u have a job where you are and you dont know how long it could take you to get a job once you move to a new area *big hugs* i hope things sort themselves out for you soon xxxxx oh and you know we would want u closer to us all if u did decide to move - we all love ya ems!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparks Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 my advice would be to do what ever will make you happiest if that means moving then go for it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Miss Bump Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 i think that you would be happier around more people.....in manchester and lancaster i was really unhappy. now i am back in merseyside and im near lisa and dave and closer to my family but also close enough to see people regularly i am so much happier. i am skint, only have a part time job but have never been more content. what ever you decide to do hun do what'll make you happy......we'll support you no matter what xxxxxxxxxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeflonDave Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 Emily, I met you for the first time at Huskyfest 2010 in Shropshire and I thought you were lovely. The hair was ace. If you're unhappy in your current situation, then you should do anything possible to remedy that. If it means moving up here to be with the rest of us northern nutters, then I for one will be well happy. ...........................But only if your hair is still pink Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Miss Bump Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 Ems-dave is just jealous coz his wispy bits of hair aren't pink!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeflonDave Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 wispy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Miss Bump Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 look on the bright side i could've said bald! love u!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KSNS Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 I'm like you when it comes to work so unhappy but can't leave untill i have some thing else... I think if you really feel it will make you happier to move and start fresh and have the means to do it then go for it Fingers crossed for you x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saffmonster Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 Ems-dave is just jealous coz his wispy bits of hair aren't pink!!! Does Dave have wispy bits? Em, we would welcome you with open arms if you moved up north. But, you have to do what makes you happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wizadora Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 i'd move up north in a shot if my friends were there, but i need to live near my auntie as shes my main support emotionally. i hate being away from home though, i lived in derby for two years but i was too lonely so had to come home. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 think you should move up near me tho - not all those lot we can have pink hair together lmao Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KSNS Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 No move here lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saffmonster Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 Nix, you move up too! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meeshsalts Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 I can not tell you to move or not. That as to your choice, but if you do decide to move make sure first you have somewhere to live and a job to go to. No point coming up here and being worse off. HUGS Michelle, Jennifer, Talon and Shaer. xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 dani - u know i cant Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lebe03 Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 IMO I would suggest you do whatever you think will make you happiest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo Smith Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 If yout Northern then you will be drawn back up north eventualy..........if your unhappy down south(god knows i would be)move....however i would make sure you have somewhere to live and a job even if its part time till you get on your feet.......i hope you resolve your situation soon and wish you all the best.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mael Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 If you're not happy and have no connections, why wait? I grew up in France, which is not too much bigger than England, and frankly, I wouldn't hesitate to move from the South to the North. I'd never be very far away. It's not like in the US where if you move to the other end of the country you need to travel for a day! Follow your heart. Something tells me your heart has already decided. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyshqa Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 I agree, I'd say move up North but make sure you've got a job and a home first. I much prefer the North to the South despite only having lived up here for a year and a couple of months. Everyone up here is much friendlier Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tikaani&Aiyana Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 Follow your heart and the rest will work itself out xxx *hugs hun* x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sutsibe Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 Good luck! IMO, being near friends or family - where you have support - is awfully important. If you can find a (hopefully) better job, even if it's one you have to start from scratch at, there's no point in staying in a place and job where you aren't happy... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
husky princess Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 dont make any rash decisions em...from what i have seen you are very close to your mum...leaving her may be very hard and you will be a good 8hrs drive away. but you need to be happy and if your friends are up north then that its important. the dogs would love the extra running opportunities! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valhalla Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 Em, you only get the one chance in life, you can be sad and unhappy or you can be upbeat and happy, I would rather be happy myself, the decision is yours and its a big step to take, have a good think about it and if you decide to go then plan it well, find a place to live and a job before you go and im sure that life will get better for you ,,,, and your right the people of the north are more friendly, I should know I married one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Miss Bump Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 Just to add to this Ems, if you need anywhere to stay to come up here for interviews or to house hunt there is a bedroom here with your name on it hun-dogs always welcome too!!! xxxxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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