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hopefully if he loves you he will support you. Maybe you could move together and make a brand new start somewhere new. I was joking when I said move near me. Move wherever it makes you happy, if you are happy, we will all be happy too. It upsets all of us to see you so unhappy. We all loves ya ems. xxxxxx :D MWAH!!!!

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Thanku to all ur replies......................................................

WHERES VAL ????????????????   a> She is the last person i need 2 hear from a>

Anyway....... I had a thought that when my mum buys a house in Wiltshire i could move in with her for a bit n then that will give me time 2 buy the perfect cottage n find a good payin job n find the best DOG PARK they sound like fun.

Then i would only b bout 3 hrsish from u lot instead of 8 !!!

Gotta go off to the hospital this mornin for some more injections.

I chickened out tellin him last nite, i thought it might b best if i leave it til after xmas......... wot do u think ?

Babe, you know how I feel, I would love nothing more than to have you here with us, it would be great to see you & the pups more, but you have to follow your heart & if your heart is to move up here to be happier, then go for it ... life can be full of what if's & you know we'll do everything in our power to help you settle & sort stuff, to support you, etc, etc ..... it's a big step, but like others have said, it sounds like you've made your mind up, xxx

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Well thats it then uve got me.

Im talkin like this is gunna happen soon but u all know wot the housin market is like at the mo it could b on the market for yrs yet !!!!!!

But at least i know ive got a future which is nice :D

Thanks Dunc........... c u can be sweet ;) + i will have a drinkin partner cos i was very good at camp n didnt have much... woop woop :lol:

I will still be seen as a southern fairy tho wont i + i havent had a cold winter since i lived in Stafford so thats gunna b a shock but its gunna b totally worth it, i feel so much happier already.

Thanks every1 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Hopefully c u soon

OH JUST 2 MAKE SURE U ALL KNOW ...............................................................................

Im not gunna be depending on u all the time, im very independent n i love nothin more than bein on my own wit my 3 (prob get another when i move yipeeeeeeeeeeee) so pls pls pls pls dont think i will be ringin u n droppin by unannounced n stuff like that.

I see this as a new start with the added benefit of my friends bein close n knowin u r proper friends that r just as mental as me.

Plus im so sick of bein skint all the time, i know money isnt everythin but livin the way i do at the mo is just horrible, so back to trucking 4 me where i can have a decent wage n not have 2 worry bout the next bill.

Plus DOG PARKS Scooby can actually be let off the lead...... i think.... is that how they work or is it leads on all the time ?

Anyway thanks again xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Scooby off lead will b sooooooo funny she will b like a pup again n run at hundreds of miles n hr .

U can tell im happier, ive just been to Maccy Ds n had off the saver menu a fries n cheeseburger only £1.98 bargain n i looked at the calories n they r only the same as a sandwich u pick up from shops some ive had have been more than a mds :D yummy yummy but now im really full bluurrggghhhh i feel like Homer when hes sat on his sofa :)

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so glad that you seem happier ems :)

well we are an open house so feel free to pop over whenever you like for a brew

lisa even has a key for ours so her and teflon can bob in and out and i have one for theirs so if one of us is at work the other lets the dogs out!! it's really good :) so nice to have love and support around you

we're all here!!!

xxxxxx

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Hers an update (2 of u already know this)................................

Yesterday i said at work that i wasnt gunna b working here for the rest of my life n i couldnt wait 2 leave, dumb ass mistake, Paul asked me where i was goin (fiance) n i said, ummmm, urrrr, ummm i dont know yet. He then said 'ur moving away arnt u?' i just said YES n he asked me whot all that stuff was about on my facebook about friends n i said it was u lot n how u said u would do anythin 4 me etc.

This is the reason i wanna leave to be near u lot, he then said i was nieve n that u wernt my friends n im stupid if u think they will even pretend u exisist, i know nothing about u all, i know nothing of ur day to day lives :o i then tried to tell him that ive been talking to u lot everyday etc etc he laughed n kept shakin his head. I was heartbroken at what he said, may sound dramatic but i was n i burst in2 tears n i just couldnt stop !!!

Silly i know but then when he had made me cry he said pls stop it n he didnt mean it he just doesnt want me to leave him.

Bare with me i am gettin 2 the point :lol:

We arranged a nite with his mum n dad at the begginin of the week, went last nite, told him not 2 say anything, when i came back from the toilet n got 2 the table his mum n dad started talkin about how they would never live anywhere but here, look at that view etc etc

I asked him if he had told them, he said no. On the walk back 2 his mnd house we walked along the harbour front in St Ives n then they were goin on n on n on bout the view n how u would never get anywhere this nice anywhere :huh: so red flags r comin up everywhere !!!!!!! So im pretty sure hes told them.

Went to bed n i was just driftin off when he aggresivly said 'wots the point' i cringed inside thinkin here we go, wots the point of us, u havent asked me 2 come with u, u dont love me etc etc etc i just said LOOK, U CAN EITHER ENJOY THE REST OF THE TIME WE HAVE LEFT TOGETHER OR FINISH IT NOW ITS UP TO YOU !!!

He was in a mood all day yesterday n all this morning, silence in the car n i just thought F**K THIS lifes 2 short.

So when i get back this afternoon im just gunna tell him everything n hope he either comes 2 terms with it or he moves out....... simple

Im a little scared, i do love him but i just dont think i love him enough to spend the rest of my life with him, in all honsety i just wanna b on my own. I think he thinks im gunna find someone else or i already have :blink: NO THANKYOU no offense to the guys on here but i really am done with u lot !!!!! :P Im gunna be the old wolf lady ive always predicted i would be, where kids will run up 2 my door n ring the doorbell just to c who can get the furthest till her wolves chase them :lol:

Its all good makin light of this i just hope my weekend doesnt turn in2 aload of s**t.

Thanks for listenin guys xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Oh n Steve im gunna make u make them 4 me all the time :lol:

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Oh Ems what a load of twozzle. Of course we are your friends (I've never met you, and who cares??) we all love and support eachother and that's what good friends are all about, whether they are online or living next door. It sounds like you don't want to be with him so say so, life is too short to put up and shut up. xxxx

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I f emma wasn't at uni i would probs be up north as well i was so close to going last year i reall really wanted to just up and go thou i love it here i can see why just going is so tempting just start again none of the past aim for what you want and nothing else no hold backs.

We are all here for you if could help you i truely would ignor him he is just bitter because he knows end of the day it is about you and not him and he can't deal with it so trying to make you insecure in order to get what he wants fingers crossed for you Ems xx

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Ems, I've said it once and I'll say it again-I have friends on here who I've met 3-4 times who are closer to me than some of my family-who I trust wholeheartedly, some people you just 'click' with-

Kells and I for example, hardly ever talk on the forum, but we talk via text or facebook and even when we're together, we can sit in silence and be so chilled out with each other and it never be awkward-i love her to pieces (and of course daddy andy, erik and the fur babies!)

Sarah EG-I've met twice, and I swear we were separated at birth-even down to our love of the little mermaid!!!! I'd bend over backwards to help her out and be there for her and hubby....

Nix-quiet as a mouse in real life and just gives u that beautiful smile! But on here she never shuts up!!! we chat on msn and facebook almost every day!

Keath and Sparks-I think I've met 5-6 times,.......and I'd do anything for either of them-they even both came from the back of beyond to make sure I had a good birthday-when I have friends less than 20mins away that couldn't be bothered to give me the time of day!!! I mean c'mon!!!! Keath and I text pretty much every day (even if some of it are rude jokes!) and sparks and i are always chatting on msn!

Yes, I may see Lisa every day but we met through here-and I see Val and Dani and Sarah a lot more than I see my own family-again meeting them through here...............

People may say that people you meet on the internet aren't your true friends and don't know much about you, I think that these are the sort of people that haven't experienced the true spirit of a forum like this.....who would've thought that some random lady in america was going through all the jolly rancher things in her area just to find me blue ones-just to make me smile!!!! Who would've thought that we could set up Husky Fest to see each other and people come from all over the country-I believe Mazz has even come over here and met UK husky owners-how many family members from abroad do you know that would come and visit you on their holidays???

These people are true friends, and yes you may not know their day to day things like what time they have tea or when they're going to have a bath so when not to go round for a brew-these are things you learn!!!!

If you need us we're here-and that is what matters most, can't wait to give you a massive cuddle, and the offer still stands that if you want to leave now-then leave, there is a room for you here. love you lots xxxxxx

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Some people just don't understand us...

I feel very accepted here but people do say to me they're not your real friends etc. I try to explain that with my mental health problems I find socialising on the internet a lot easier, but I'm not very good at explaining it.

I'm sorry you're going through this Ems, I really feel for you.

Stacey xxx

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Ems, I've said it once and I'll say it again-I have friends on here who I've met 3-4 times who are closer to me than some of my family-who I trust wholeheartedly, some people you just 'click' with-

Kells and I for example, hardly ever talk on the forum, but we talk via text or facebook and even when we're together, we can sit in silence and be so chilled out with each other and it never be awkward-i love her to pieces (and of course daddy andy, erik and the fur babies!)

Sarah EG-I've met twice, and I swear we were separated at birth-even down to our love of the little mermaid!!!! I'd bend over backwards to help her out and be there for her and hubby....

Nix-quiet as a mouse in real life and just gives u that beautiful smile! But on here she never shuts up!!! we chat on msn and facebook almost every day!

Keath and Sparks-I think I've met 5-6 times,.......and I'd do anything for either of them-they even both came from the back of beyond to make sure I had a good birthday-when I have friends less than 20mins away that couldn't be bothered to give me the time of day!!! I mean c'mon!!!! Keath and I text pretty much every day (even if some of it are rude jokes!) and sparks and i are always chatting on msn!

Yes, I may see Lisa every day but we met through here-and I see Val and Dani and Sarah a lot more than I see my own family-again meeting them through here...............

People may say that people you meet on the internet aren't your true friends and don't know much about you, I think that these are the sort of people that haven't experienced the true spirit of a forum like this.....who would've thought that some random lady in america was going through all the jolly rancher things in her area just to find me blue ones-just to make me smile!!!! Who would've thought that we could set up Husky Fest to see each other and people come from all over the country-I believe Mazz has even come over here and met UK husky owners-how many family members from abroad do you know that would come and visit you on their holidays???

These people are true friends, and yes you may not know their day to day things like what time they have tea or when they're going to have a bath so when not to go round for a brew-these are things you learn!!!!

If you need us we're here-and that is what matters most, can't wait to give you a massive cuddle, and the offer still stands that if you want to leave now-then leave, there is a room for you here. love you lots xxxxxx

diz this is amazing and ems

we al love you and know you......if we didnt care you would have us saying all this and wanting to know how youare

we are your husky family and nothing is stronger than family bonds x

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Em, I'm not gonna add to anything been said on here, you know deep down how we truly feel & that it's not all "trying to be nice when you are feeling down" - it's meant from the heart.

You do what you need to do to make you happy & if that involves moving up north / north west, you have a whole crowd of people & furbabies around here that will do their utmost to help & support you.

Thinking to the future, if you were to move here, job-wise, what would you be looking for? Property-wise, what would you be after (Dani is the queen of finding homes, ask Diz!!)? When you take the plunge, let us know & we can help out with anything to get you started .. ;)

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We were talking about this the other day-she's looking for a house-one bed (but obv everyone needs a spare room sometimes!) secure garden, not in a city-but sort of on the outskirts where she has good access to walking routes etc, but links to getting to motorways/cities for work.............i think she said £130k max

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