Chewbacca_&_me Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 I dunno folks, I feel as though Im going to buckle at the knees for all the pressure. This last week has been insane, and Im not actually sure what i did wrong. Im somewhat irritable but mostly just worn out and upset. My neighbor that Ive not had any serious issues with in almost 3 years has suddenly turned on me and she is making everything difficult ( she and her 50 something year old mother). Im not a rude person and Im am never rude just because I feel like it, so I just dont get why other people do that. Sinc when did it become ok to make threats and be rude for no reason? Also since when is it ok to be rude and nasty and profane in front of someone elses kids? When I came home sunday afternoon from getting my kiddo her bday presents and going to mickey d's my neighbors 50? year old mom came struttuing out of her garage and to the middle of my driveway. She then began to curse at me and practically at the top of her lungs too. She said " Im not ur neighbor but if I was Id report you cuz ur yard smells like sh##, fu## dont u clean up after ur dogs? I mean he##, thats just fu##in nasty!!" And ALL of that was yelled at me in front of my children!! Heres the kicker, there were only 4 piles of poo in my yard from earlier that morning, and it wasnt my yard that was stinkin! Makes me so mad how rude and immature people are to each other. Earlier in the week my neighbor (not her mother) sent me the 3 worst and most threatening texts Ive ever gotten and I overheard them laughing about it because they left the window open and I was outside smoking. I now feel humiliated and stupid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeflonDave Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 Hi Erika. Sounds like you're havin a rough time . Sympathy from me. However, imo, low lifes like that aren't worth getting upset over. And if all else fails, you could always pop a little Husky type toilet gift in their mailbox Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chewbacca_&_me Posted June 2, 2010 Author Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 I really wish I could leave them a "chewy surprise" Dave, hahahaha. Thing is the boxes are the lock and key kind lol. But Incidently i did consider leaving a steaming bag on their front portch, hahahaha. That would go over like a fart in church though. I know I shouldnt get so bent outa shape over them, but i never would have thought theyd be like this. Normally its been my experience that if a neighbor is gonna be terrible they do it right from the begining. Guess Ive just been a lucky person til now, lol. I always take things more personally when I get to know people and like them, and then these kinds of things happen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuskyCouture Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 Thats terrible. Just ignore them hun, they're just being idiots and are jealous of you and your pups. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arooroomom Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 Sorry to hear about that Erika.. we have some pretty crummy neighbors too. Fences make the best neighbors. Big tall thick fences I'd have told her where to shove it. People are so rude... what's wrong with just being decent? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chewbacca_&_me Posted June 2, 2010 Author Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 Thats exactly what Id like to know Kristina....there seem to be fewer people who are considerate or decent. I never wanted to punch someone so badly...then again I never want to be arrested, lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SarahNukka&Shadow Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 Keep the threatening txt messages, keep records of everything she says to you and if possible try to keep a portable tape recorder on you so if she does that kind of thing again you can record it... then report them to the police for harrassment! Neighbours can be very very rude and unfair sometimes and I know you've deffinatly had your fair share of that bless you so dont get angry get even! Love you Erika, you are a lovely person and everyone here knows it and is behind you fully! Keep your chin up hon, hold your head high and dont let them know their getting to you, thats the best way to be with nasty scumbag bullies like them! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Miss Bump Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 Keep the threatening txt messages, keep records of everything she says to you and if possible try to keep a portable tape recorder on you so if she does that kind of thing again you can record it... then report them to the police for harrassment! Neighbours can be very very rude and unfair sometimes and I know you've deffinatly had your fair share of that bless you so dont get angry get even! Love you Erika, you are a lovely person and everyone here knows it and is behind you fully! Keep your chin up hon, hold your head high and dont let them know their getting to you, thats the best way to be with nasty scumbag bullies like them! well said sarah xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boshka Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 That is really awful, if they have something to say they shouldn't do it infront of your children! I agree with Sarah & Diz keep a record of everything if you can, you may need it in the future! Good luck & keep your chin up, you can always rant on here at us Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karly_larkin Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 well said sarah big hugs erika hun keep your chin up and dont let them get to you it will p*** them off more if it's not getting to you. big hugs hun keep your chin up xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 Well Said sarah added to rep. ** hugs** Erika - that is awful some people have no decency or morals what so ever. Fancy speaking like that in front of your children!! Sadly, people like that have no shame - you on the other hand can hold your head up high knowing you ARE better than them and soon you will be moving back home xx Keep your chin up hun, everyone here is behind you xxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 Keep the threatening txt messages, keep records of everything she says to you and if possible try to keep a portable tape recorder on you so if she does that kind of thing again you can record it... then report them to the police for harrassment! Neighbours can be very very rude and unfair sometimes and I know you've deffinatly had your fair share of that bless you so dont get angry get even! Love you Erika, you are a lovely person and everyone here knows it and is behind you fully! Keep your chin up hon, hold your head high and dont let them know their getting to you, thats the best way to be with nasty scumbag bullies like them! well sed sarah - i agree hun keep all the txts everything then report them they shudnt b able 2 get away with that its not fair on u!!!!!!! *hugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sid_Wolf Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 i agree with everything thats been said, keep all the messages, can you install cctv? Yu dont deserve this hun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chewbacca_&_me Posted June 2, 2010 Author Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 I apologize for the rantings, Its just really stressful, and you are the only people i have to talk about it with right now. This stuff has kept me grumpy and very self concious all this week and last week. Im so glad my friend is coming back early and those people are moving soon. I cant wait for a break lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 Hugs Erika - rant away xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chewbacca_&_me Posted June 2, 2010 Author Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 Yeah my husband is mad too because I didnt report them for harrassment. H says I should report them asap. Thing is I know that reporting them will hurt us more than them because housing will listen to them lie and then tell me to get rid of the dogs to neutralize the problem. My neighbor and all the nonsense she and her mother are doing is actually very hypocritical. They should have been reported several times over. In our neighborhood and on post there are laws saying that children under the age of ten and dogs in general should not be outside alone without adult supervision. Their dog Molly is outside almost 24/7 alone, barking, escaping the yard, etc. Secondly, their daughters are maybe 8 and 6, and we have seen them outside alone with no adults watching whatsoever, and if the dog is walked or acknowledged at all it is because mom and grandmother send the girls out alone to walk molly around the neighborhood. Let alone that is illegal but it is also illegal on post to leave a dog outside in the heat all day because it is always HOT. When they do clean their tyard and molly's poo (once every month or 2) they spray the yard down with water and let it sit so the smell is stifling and leave molly outside to walk, run and play in the nasty flooded yard, and then yell at molly and hit/abuse her because she gets muddy and nasty. Yet they have the nerve to judge me, make threats, get rude, and yell at me in front of my kids. I could have been nosey and reported them on several violations already and instead I minded my own business, except once when I asked if they would like me to walk molly with my dogs (last year) because I felt bad for Molly because she was only 5 months old at the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Val (Zebedee) Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 Erika, this is awful, it amazes me what gets into people sometimes .... So sorry to hear you're having a rough time with the neighbours. I agree with all that's been said, keep any texts, jot down any confrontations if you can't record it, keep a log of anything that happens. The sooner they move the better, but in the meantime, yes, hold your head high, if they see you respond, they'll have won, just come in here & rant away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chewbacca_&_me Posted June 2, 2010 Author Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 I truly appreciate the support, If I can ever return the favor I really will. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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