loops Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 after a discussion, we have decided to split up, the wedge that stepson has driven between us is just too great. Neither of us have been particularly happy for a while. Neither of us can afford to live alone so we have decided that he is going to put a stud wall in the dining room and sleep in there. Step son gets to stay in his stinking pit and i get our room where we will put a tv so i can have a place to escape to. on one hand i'm gutted but on the other hand its no suprise and i had been thinking about moving out, its the reasons behind it all that p1ss me off the most Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shadow-Kodah-Drako Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 it's hard having step kids around, i know been through it here both kids moved out we never see them, but life goes on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valkyries Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 sorry to here this hun it's hard i know been there but stay strong and remember we're here if ya need us xxxxxx hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
basketcase687 Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 Aww,sorry to hear..Whatever will be,will be.Hope you and the fur kids are ok though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Removed #5 Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 oh, Linda that's the pits! And having step-son around all the time isn't going to help matters! Hope something works out for you all quickly! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stormchaser09 Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 oh I am so sorry to read this, but you need to do what is right for you. Hope you are ok. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherrie-Nanook-Indy Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 big hugs Linda, i hope that you keep happy, you know where i am if you need to laugh at my stupidness - ill start saving some stories for you xxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NicTurtle Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 I'm sorry you can't get completely out of the situation and away. How hard for you this must be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paranormal Wolf Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 Oh wow sounds like a really hard situation to be in. I wish you all the best as you sort through this difficult time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leyka&Diva Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tracey8 Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 sorry to hear this ,hope things turn out for the best whichever way it goes xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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BingBlaze n Skyla Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 Massive hugs x Sent from my ST18i using Forum Runner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smokey Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 so sorry Linda Step kids come between the step parent and the "real" parent a lot and it's so hard, here for you if you need a chat or if you want a break away hubby is away all wkend so feel free to call for a coffee or something stronger xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sqwidge Posted August 16, 2012 Report Share Posted August 16, 2012 Hugs Linda xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosemary Posted August 17, 2012 Report Share Posted August 17, 2012 I am sorry to read this Linda - I hope living under the same roof will not be too difficult for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Povodny Posted August 17, 2012 Report Share Posted August 17, 2012 I'm so sorry Linda, I understand how difficult it is dealing with step children and a relationship. Even more so when the particular child is (putting it politely) a handful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Melsom Posted August 17, 2012 Report Share Posted August 17, 2012 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted August 17, 2012 Report Share Posted August 17, 2012 Im so sorry Linda its such a shame. Im secretly worried this could happen to me one day over Jordon. I was a bit freaked out last night though, I thought you meant he had died!:eek: I hope this doesnt mean we wont see you at camps anymore, who will I sit by the fire with till the wee hours of the morning?? Loadsa Love Loopy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 17, 2012 Report Share Posted August 17, 2012 So sorry to hear this! Big hugs xxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Val (Zebedee) Posted August 17, 2012 Report Share Posted August 17, 2012 aw, Loops, I'm sorry to hear this. I have similar hurdles too. I hope you & "him indoors" stay in an amicable "relationship" while this is going on around you (and the bugger who caused this is happy with his work). I'm only 10 mins away if you need a walk with the pooches etc to escape, xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loops Posted August 17, 2012 Author Report Share Posted August 17, 2012 thanks everone, i cant believe im so upset because ive really been in a bad place lately and wanted to go anyway. i think it is still the fact that he does not see step son as the problem it is doubly hard at the mo cos my 78 year old mother is still in hospital following a perforated appendix, she is not healing as well and they wont let her out,, which in itself opens up another can of worms. do i jack my job in and move back down south to look after my parents cos there is nothing up here for me now:( well except you lot of course lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted August 17, 2012 Report Share Posted August 17, 2012 thanks everone, i cant believe im so upset because ive really been in a bad place lately and wanted to go anyway. i think it is still the fact that he does not see step son as the problem it is doubly hard at the mo cos my 78 year old mother is still in hospital following a perforated appendix, she is not healing as well and they wont let her out,, which in itself opens up another can of worms. do i jack my job in and move back down south to look after my parents cos there is nothing up here for me now:( well except you lot of course lol im southish lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loops Posted August 17, 2012 Author Report Share Posted August 17, 2012 Im so sorry Linda its such a shame. Im secretly worried this could happen to me one day over Jordon. I was a bit freaked out last night though, I thought you meant he had died!:eek: I hope this doesnt mean we wont see you at camps anymore, who will I sit by the fire with till the wee hours of the morning?? Loadsa Love Loopy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx:grouphug: all cases are different lou, however naughty jordon is, if Alex has your backing and support he should not be too bad. (these i did not have from ian who just buried his head in the sand and continued to let stepson be a dick) as for camps. i will appear but in a tent cos i'm a mong and cant tow a caravan. well my 206 wont tow ours lol xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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