Sarah Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 Ok, here goes a really long post! First off yes i'm back - I've decided my life would be easier on here - my god i've nearly worn away all the buttons on my phone!!! A huge thank you to everyone for your kind words of encouragement and for chewing my ears well and truly off!! Appologies if I ramble on somewhat but I hope you understand my gibberish . I've not been "home" for a week, i stayed away from facebook as well but things didn't improve. To cheer myself up i went and bought a new lap top (woooo!!!! it's FAST!!) and have been playing the sims on it every night - I now have 3 kids to look after on there and i'm pregnant with another - see what i was driven too!!!!!! Anyway, i digress....... I wanted to slip away quietly but Marc said as I was admin, an announcement had to be made, hence his thread the other day. I would have preferred for it to be a closed thread as my decision to leave was not to teach people a lesson or have people trying to inflate my ego - that is not the person I am nor ever want to be. I simply broke and had had enough. I've read all the replies and cried everytime i go through them. I owe you all an appology! It has been made clear to me how many people my leaving upset and how it could jepordise this place. I didn't mean to cause anyone any harm nor upset anyone. I had no idea how much of a negative impact it would have and I am ashamed and sorry for what occured. I will not let the actions of a handful of people bring me down. I am back, I am here to stay and I will make it all up to you. I will be making some changes however. The first being to get my bloody profile back as admin as i am NOT liking being blue - it's just not right lol The second, will be to go and buy some balls. Too many times I have defended people and been made to look an idiot and walked all over. Not anymore. Normally, Marc is the one to deal with the negative side of things and i'm always the nice admin, well I need to live up to my hair colour - Red Heads have tempers and i will find mine - when it is necessary. I'm actually dreading clicking the new post button I think I may need a few days off work to catch up! All that being said - i will still be the same old me (well young ) However I will not sit on the fence anymore with regards to taking action, this i believe is why some people feel the forum is not what it used to be, people feel they have been ganged up on etc - this I can assure you will not happen again. Everyone is entitled to their opinion - what people are NOT entitled to do on here is to force that opinion down someone's throat. If you don't like something.....move on - Click the X (as Nix would say)....if you feel something isn't right on the forum or you're not happy with something PM ME!!! Don't sit there and moan about it to others. I have always said I welcome constructive critiscism. I have never ignored a PM yet and I want to activley make this place what YOU want it. I accept that this forum is a living thing, it grows, it changes, it gives and receives a lot of love an attention. It can only continue to live if it's members take care of it - if you treat it badly and abuse it - it will die. Treat others as you yourself expect to be treated. Remember, your dog loves you unconditionally, so does this forum, and so do I. See you around the forum, thank you for taking the time to read this essay, sorry it is a bit long, and thank you for your commitment to HO xxxx :huskyrocks: ps @Marc change me back to RED!!!!!! oh and PPS - i WANTED to post this in the announcements section however I don't have permission to do that so it has to go in the member announcements Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marc Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 With pleasure! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Val (Zebedee) Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 oh! Peace is disturbed!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stormchaser09 Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 thank goodness you came back. I can't work out the quote thing but my moto online as in real life is always to treat others how I would like to be treated, perhaps this should be the way forward. I honestly don't know what I would do without this forum and I haven't met anyone in real life yet so onwards and upwards and I hope to meet some members one day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valkyries Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 welcome home hun xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 oh thank GOD for that - imma still post the letter i wrote earlier tho - so u will get that soon hon - good luck reading my scrawl tho LOL - typing is sooo much neater lol u have no idea how happy i am that ur back however........... STOP SAYING SORRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! youve done feck all wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vlad Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 We are glad to see u back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparks Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 Welcome Home Saz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D :D :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 Hey Sarah Heres those Balls you wanted! Welcome back! and thank god your not gonna let a few fannies mess up an amazing thing! oh and how can you not like being Blue, I'm blue! so therefore Blue = awesome! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snugglescfc Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 best post i have read all day Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted July 6, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 Hey Sarah Heres those Balls you wanted! Welcome back! and thank god your not gonna let a few fannies mess up an amazing thing! oh and how can you not like being Blue, I'm blue! so therefore Blue = awesome! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ah but blue means i can't ban someone's arse when needed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 i like blue - had a weird dream i was purple tho last night LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 haha thats true! I hope you put those balls to good use! I had to do some freaky stuff to get hold of those things! i like blue - had a weird dream i was purple tho last night LOL Nix.... You really need to take a break from this site obviously! You HO ADDICT! you need rehab! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laine Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 Welcome back home, Sarah! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 haha thats true! I hope you put those balls to good use! I had to do some freaky stuff to get hold of those things! Nix.... You really need to take a break from this site obviously! You HO ADDICT! you need rehab! i am an addict - but not sumthing i want rehab for tho LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laine Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 You HO ADDICT! you need rehab! This made me LOL! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmonk Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 Welcome "HOME" Sazzle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mazz Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 Sarah, I'm glad you did not let the dark side win. Feels like home again. So, congratulations are in order. Well . . . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueWolf Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 Sarah: "No one can hurt you without your permission." I'm very happy you decided to come back. There's no forum like one with a Sarah on it!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 i am an addict - but not sumthing i want rehab for tho LOL I supposed if your a HO addicted you'll be giving the pimps alot of money! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosemary Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 Welcome home Sarah, we miss you when you're not here. :yahoo: :yahoo: I love this smilie - he is such a happy chappie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ron Tao&Sky Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 Welcome homs Sarah:wave1: and Nix lay off the Cheese eat :popcorn:instead.........Ron Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa (Fragglebabe) Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 Welcome back Sarah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lebe03 Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 so glad your back Sarah as HO isn't the same without you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy Posted July 6, 2011 Report Share Posted July 6, 2011 Yay, Saz is Back. I'm glad. :smile: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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